So the next topic in the gratitude challenge is Spouse or significant other.
Where to begin, lol.
It all started back in 2001, I was separated and little did I know, my husband of today was going through similar trials. His first “official” (or on paper legal) separation happened in 2001. We didn’t know each other, but the next few years shaped what would become our future together.
Fast forward to 2004, I had been through another abusive relationship, this one damaging my child as well as myself. It had taken me a few years to want to try and even think about dating. And he was yet again finding himself used and kicked out on the street while paying all the bills for his ex and kids.
What a damaged pair we made.
2004, the year of starting over. Together.
Fast forward again to 2007, we had made it through so much. Just those few prior years could be several blog posts all on their own. Still sticking together. I am not sure if we were crazy, or just crazy. Yes we were crazy. We got married.
The ex’s and kids (and satan working through them) did everything possible to see us fail. We did not. We found God, or rather my husband did. That changed everything. For awhile.
Then we walked away from God….again. Both of us. More drama, more stress and more mistakes.
But God did not walk away from us. Now years later, we are stronger, more focused on what is important. Things are not perfect, there will always be crazy ex’s in the background waiting to bite, and kids who prefer they not have a step mom or step dad. Faith got us through, and faith will keep us together.
John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
I am so thankful for the blessing of a committed husband, who carries me when I can’t go on, who pushes me when I need a kick in the butt, and who challenges me when I need to think differently.
I am grateful for my husband.
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