So I am taking a post off from my gratitude challenge posts.
Humph is how I feel these days.
All of life is crashing in on me and I don’t know where to turn or how to find my way out. I have been on antidepressants for about two years, when my Ataxia symptoms started getting bad, when my sons issues for lack of a better term started ramping up, and when my marriage was at a crossing road….and now…..empty nest syndrome, husband working too much….work sucking….and facing I will never have another child, has left me worse off than before.
My stupid idea? STOP taking my medication to try and get some sleep. It seems that the meds were causing me to be overly exhausted and I could not sleep for about two months…..that is all I can chalk it up to as now that I have been off for two weeks, I am getting much better rest. Still tired, but not as exhausted. Crying alot. But better rested.
So back to humph. Where does one go with ones life when one has no clue why they are on earth, no purpose. Oh sure my Christian friends will tell me God has a purpose for me. But seriously….He is being pretty silent in telling me what that purpose is.
Clearly it is not to be a mom again, clearly it is not to have a family….remember those stepkids are not allowed to consider me or my family part of theirs…..clearly it is not to be wildly romanced by my workaholic husband…..clearly it is not to accomplish any of the things that I set out to do. Do I sound negative? Damn right I do.
Just wish I could find that one thing that will give me a purpose. Something to be passionate about. I have tried getting into creative things, scrapbooking, coloring, cardmaking, photography, baking….those are all great, but they don’t really accomplish a sense of purpose. They are fun things.
I want to feel needed. I want to feel loved. I want to feel alive.
Maybe I need an on the side boyfriend? LOL……just a thought.
Clearly I need something.